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Younger Demographic at Clubs

May 03 2016

Having recently had our first night out at a lifestyle club we were a little disappointed to not see anyone with our age bracket be it couples or single males or females, also have had friends and people at the club that night inform us that though occasionally they do get younger people there it's not often. Which brings me to wonder why this is, is it perhaps there only attending certiant clubs and we weren't at the right one or is it for other reasons? In saying that though we still had a good night and had a conversation with a few of the people there all of which were friendly, although didn't find anyone that would have been of interest for us as playmates. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    in general you'll find that people in the swinging scene tend to be a bit older...35+. Often it's not until people get older that they find the inclination / courage / right life place to start experimenting sexually. Having said that there are a few younger couples on here so maybe you can try to organise a meet with some of them...I recall someone putting up a thread about an event like that awhile back but am not sure what happened with it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'd definitely recommend arranging your own parties, even better if you can do it at home, something I'd like to do in the near future. But the cost of a hotel room can be covered by a small charge for those who attend. You'd know more about this site than I would I'm sure, but why don't you try a private party and put it up in the events section. See what interest you get and choose who you want to attend. I should be listening to my own advice here hmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We're probably abit far from civilisation to be hosting our own party's at home. Though will definitely keep it in mind. Since we have relocated have also found it challenging to be able to organise meetups and time away, most trips away have been very spontaneous events. Though as with anything keep trying and don't give up nothing happens if you don't try and we still have plenty of fun in the meantime. :D - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    9 years ago

    I did notice there was sexy people around your age group. I know as I was chatting to them. I think it depends who is there on the night...you know timing, right place kind of thing and weither or not people around your age feel like attending or not. So it's not necessary, you guys. You do know, age is just a number, so if you get on well and there's a connection all round, "Happy Times"...yeah. :) I'm glad to hear you had an enjoyable time. You could organise you own event?? Maybe organise meet at a nice bar prior and head to Club after. Even email the club and ask if they do small group booking. Then post event up in the events tab. Best of luck. Ms Foxy x

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    9 years ago

    Clubs can be a bit hit and miss. CV on the Gold Coast had a younger crowd last time we were there. We prefer private parties these days.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'QLDtwo4fun' Clubs can be a bit hit and miss. CV on the Gold Coast had a younger crowd last time we were there. We prefer private parties these days. Interesting.. i always find the opposite of CV - I find it to be an older crowd lol must depend on when you are there. I find club whispers on the gold coast has quite a few young people being close to surfers they tend to come from the night clubs look up young swingers network and see if you can find one of their events around :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I usually find that I'm about the youngest at a party. Although on occasionally I'm surprised with a couple of youngsters. You're going to have to except most 20- something's aren't that comfortable in their relationships to play to their full potential. The couples I've met have been just lovely in looks but I find navigating their relationships tedious. It can happen to anyone but the chances in that bracket are high. I won't call myself that experienced as I prefer single male delights. The previous advise was good and we've thrown a party in the past, it's a fair amount of hard work. Knowing you're limited by circumstance you might have to make some lemonade out of your sitcho. Why not play older? A party is exactly when I break out of every rule I normally put on myself. There's a lot of fun to be had with ppl of all kinds. Who I like to date may not be who rocks my socks off at a party. Try to stay open and see what happens... You might just surprise yourselves. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Longest_dream' I usually find that I'm about the youngest at a party. Although on occasionally I'm surprised with a couple of youngsters. You're going to have to except most 20- something's aren't that comfortable in their relationships to play to their full potential. The couples I've met have been just lovely in looks but I find navigating their relationships tedious. It can happen to anyone but the chances in that bracket are high. I won't call myself that experienced as I prefer single male delights. The previous advise was good and we've thrown a party in the past, it's a fair amount of hard work. Knowing you're limited by circumstance you might have to make some lemonade out of your sitcho. Why not play older? A party is exactly when I break out of every rule I normally put on myself. There's a lot of fun to be had with ppl of all kinds. Who I like to date may not be who rocks my socks off at a party. Try to stay open and see what happens... You might just surprise yourselves. - Posted from rhpmobile And for this you'll always be welcome to any of our parties in the future ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hello :) I've been to some amazing under 35s nights that have been packed with younger demographic and were totally awesome. I actually think it has to do with the club organisers and the fact that there is this stigma that older people go there so therefore younger people don't. Look out for under 35s nights or talk to club owners about organising them- there are heaps of hot young swinging couples who have nowhere to go :) Xxviolet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    haha, you know I'm going to be a repeat offender!! 😝 That spa is just too much fun 😉 P.s. That comment wasn't referencing our mutual friends, it was far more broad in scope. 😇 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    These thoughts never leave . You are the future darling !!! ( or was it he that posted - either way - look forward - plenty will join you in time. )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I've often been the "Spring Chicken" at parties, social or play. :)